Do you think you have found your soulmate? Think again

As much as you try, sometimes it’s hard not to insist on the error that this person is right for you. Even when all signs indicate that this is not your soulmate.

Have you ever stopped to think what make you consider someone your soulmate? There are many reasons or feelings that can make you see your partner as your eternal love, your better half, but there are very obvious signs that become difficult to notice when you are engaged in a relationship.

If you’ve been dating for a while and conversations about the future are avoided, pay close attention. It can be one of the signs that the relationship is not being taken seriously. If the answers are evasive and the conversation is made in the singular rather than the plural, so you haven’t have found your true love.

Regarding the most important people in your life: friends and family, if there is no interest in your partner to meet, spend time with or accommodate them, if necessary, if he is too busy or find it a nuisance, then the love of your life has not yet arrived. If that is the case, he would be happy to spend time with who is important to you.

If the criticism is constant, then it probably is not the right way. There are more difficult traits that, as a rule, are very critical, but everything has its limits. If the criticism is too high, maybe it’s time to turn to other side.

Another of the aspects to be taken into consideration is the relevance that certain events have for you. Anniversaries, births, funerals, job problems, anyway, if events are constantly overlooked for your love, it may serve to show you that maybe he is not your true love.

Last, but not least, the importance and the affection that he demonstrates to you. If your choice is also your great love, so he needs to demonstrate his love for you, give you comfort, respect and give you a lot of attention. If this is not your case, then you have to accept the reality that he is not the love of your life, or at least you’re not his.